So, What Is Real, Good News?

“The mystics would say whenever you stand apart and objectify anything you stop knowing it. You have to love, respect, and enter into relationship with what you desire to know…This is knowing by participation” (Knowing through Loving, Sunday, February 26, 2017; Father Richard Rohr, OFM).

We are quite messed up in our national political life with fighting about facts or alternative facts or truth or half-truths. We accuse each other of reporting fake news because we don’t agree with it or it challenges us to be responsible for our statements and actions. I am grateful for free press organizations that take time to study and learn about the subjects they report. I use a filter for the quality of news inversely related to the drama, anger, and disdain present in the story. In other words, news stories presented with entertaining drama, anger, and disdain for the people involved have less value for me and don’t serve the truth they want to report.

Comedians and artists gain popularity in times of arrogant, foolish, and outrageous communications and reporting. I like the use of humor to reveal our obsessive-compulsive behaviors and feel the pain of recognition when their commentary hits home. However, we don’t learn much about real news when we communicate combatively.

In late January, I posted this photo on Facebook with this comment: “Paused a moment to consider how this collection (my Evernote journal is on the bottom) on my reading table represents basic commitments in my life and ministry.” One of my colleagues commented in jest, “put the Holy Bible on the top.” I replied, “I notice it is in the middle.”

I love learning God’s Word and having it in the middle of my conversations, considerations, and commitments to live as a disciple of Jesus Christ. And I am blessed and energized by being with other people who love to learn. That’s why I appreciate Father Richard Rohr’s statement about the need to love, respect, and enter into relationship with what you desire to know. When news is shared from a perspective of love, respect, and relationship, we feel its truth. That is the best understanding of evangelism I have.

But this type of communication comes with great risk. Parker Palmer writes in Healing the Heart of Democracy:

If you hold your knowledge of self and world wholeheartedly, your heart will at times get broken by loss, failure, defeat, betrayal, or death. What happens next in you and the world around you depends on how your heart breaks. If it breaks apart into a thousand pieces, the result may be anger, depression, and disengagement. If it breaks open into greater capacity to hold the complexities and contradictions of human experience, the result may be new life (page 18; my emphasis).

At my dad’s funeral, I found comfort in these words about learning and wisdom:

My child, if you accept my words and treasure up my commandments within you, making your ear attentive to wisdom and inclining your heart to understanding; if you indeed cry out for insight, and raise your voice for understanding; if you seek it like silver, and search for it as for hidden treasures—then you will understand the fear of the Lord and find the knowledge of God (Proverbs 2:1-5).

Real, good news is found in the passionate pursuit of knowledge with an open heart.

I pray we enter the Holy Week and the Easter season with this spirit to learn what we need to know for abundant life with God and each other.

Slippery Slope? or Miry Bog?

Psalm 40:2 – He drew me up from the desolate pit, out of the miry bog, and set my feet upon a rock, making my steps secure (NRSV); He lifted me out of the ditch, pulled me from deep mud. He stood me up on a solid rock to make sure I wouldn’t slip (The Message); He lifted me out of the pit of despair, out of the mud and the mire. He set my feet on solid ground and steadied me as I walked along (NLT).


The “slippery slope” image is used as a rhetorical technique in arguments. It is a version of reductio ad absurdum (Latin for “reduction to absurdity”). If we allow this first thing to happen, then all these other things will happen and we will eventually be in an extreme position or condition that is bad or undesirable. It is similar to a domino effect. It also is good for creating fear and mistrust in another person’s or group’s statements or beliefs.

I got to thinking more about the image, slippery slope. It assumes we currently are elevated, holding the high ground, or standing in the beneficial position of dominance. It assumes we are in a good, right place NOW, so changing is bad and wrong.

But what if that’s not where we are? What came to me is that a contrasting image for a slippery slope (down which we may fall) is a miry bog (out of which we are lifted by God). The three versions of Psalm 40:2 highlight the power of this image. We are drawn up and lifted; our feet are placed on solid ground to take steady steps along God’s way.

Discerning and then accepting or changing our primary frame of reference is a powerful spiritual act. Are we about to fall down a slippery slope or be lifted up from a miry bog?

Knowing our primary frame of reference, or where we are coming from, helps us understand other dimensions of our life.

George Lakoff, in his book Moral Politics, presents the images of Strict Father or Nurturing Parent to describe the deeply different foundations we have for the political beliefs we hold. Another contrast is Nature or Nurture for how we describe the predominant influence on our human development.

Can we be in two places at once? Is there a slippery slope in the miry bog or a miry bog at the top of a slippery slope? How true are both of them at the same time?

One of my most influential seminary professors, Rev. Dr. Letty Russell, said that what you see depends on where you stand. We are challenged to learn from those who are standing in different places.

In my August 2019 post, “What Does Your Survey Say?” I wrote:

I know we feel the corrosive effects of violence from racism, menacing policies of leaders (and now laws of legislatures encouraging suspicion and accusation against our neighbors), threatening rhetoric, and grossly unjust differences of wealth. Jesus also was subject to these forces in his death on the cross.

See from His head, His hands, His feet,
Sorrow and love flow mingled down!
Did e’er such love and sorrow meet,
Or thorns compose so rich a crown?
(When I Survey the Wondrous Cross)

Sorrow and love mingle for sure but so does anger at the humiliation and disregard for vulnerable people represented in the crown of thorns. We still live in a world that needs saving and healing and restoration and peace. And I am inspired to keep showing up for Church and ministry and life by the words of Adrienne Rich:

My heart is moved by all I cannot save: so much has been destroyed I have to cast my lot with those who age after age, perversely, with no extraordinary power reconstitute the world (“Natural Resources” by Adrienne Rich in Household of Freedom by Rev. Dr. Letty Russell).


I pray that we might seek God’s help to be lifted out of the miry bog of violence and exploitation, regain our balance, and find ways to walk together along God’s way. And I am grateful for amazingly faithful people who reconstitute the world God has given us.

I Have Been On or Around Campuses A Lot

¶ 120. The Mission—The mission of the Church is to make disciples of Jesus Christ for the transformation of the world. Local churches and extension ministries of the Church provide the most significant arenas through which disciple-making occurs (The Book of Discipline of The United Methodist Church, 2016, Part IV, The Ministry of All Christians; emphasis added).

In honor of this year’s graduates and their schools and campuses, I celebrate the work of The United Methodist Church through its extension ministries, especially Wesley Foundations.

My wife, call to ordained ministry, and primary life direction are all blessings of my journey in United Methodist campus ministry. I was a student at CMU’s Wesley Foundation 1979-83. I served as the Director of the Wesley Foundation of Kalamazoo 1993-2002. And I am currently Chairperson of the West Michigan Conference Board of Higher Education and Campus Ministry (BHECM).

CMU Wesley Foundation had Sunday night gatherings in 1981. It must have been the first meeting of the fall semester. I noticed Beverly sitting across the room. We talked afterward with a small group of people and convinced her to come on the New York City Mission Trip in October. On the trip, there were four of us in a car, including Beverly. I remember sitting in the back seat and wanting to talk with her while she was in the front seat, but I could not remember her name. I had never met anyone my age named Beverly before so I called her “Doris” which also was the name of no one my age. She was kind in her reply, repeated her name, and we talked. I should have written down her name because several miles down the road I wanted to talk with her again, had forgotten her name, and called her Doris a second time. She asked me to repeat myself which added to my discomfort. Again, she was kind, repeated her name, and we talked. After the trip, our friend, Rob, played matchmaker with us and our relationship developed in wonderful ways. We were married August 13, 1983.

My faith gained a social conscience at the CMU Wesley Foundation with the inspiring and irritating ministry of Rev. Tom Jones. I brought a personal, evangelical faith to campus nurtured in Three Oaks United Methodist Church with Rev. Larry Irvine. I considered attending a Christian college, but consciously decided that if my faith was going to be worthwhile to me, it needed to develop on a secular campus. Tom, Beverly, Rob and so many others provided an incredible atmosphere of grace and prophetic challenge as we lived and grew in the contexts of nuclear weapons and nuclear energy, Apartheid in South Africa, hunger and homelessness in New York City (Catholic Worker and Taize Community), poverty in Appalachia (Thousand Sticks, KY), and discrimination against lesbian and gay sisters and brothers. My call to ordained ministry deepened through these experiences and a growing desire to study the Biblical foundations of such a life.

Campus ministry continued to impact me after graduation and seminary. Tom baptized our oldest daughter, Lindsey, at Center Park UMC, my first appointment. Sarah and Amanda were baptized by pastor friends while we were at the Wesley Foundation of Kalamazoo. Our time at Western was transformational as I was blessed to be a companion and guide for incredible people coming to their consciousness of God and vocation and finding life partners.

Serving as the current Chairperson for BHECM in West Michigan, I have yet another perspective of being an advocate for campus ministry and higher education, now in the life of the Church. We are in the right place and doing the right thing to provide for United Methodist Christian faith communities with the most concentrated population of young adults in our culture on our campuses.

Good Morning. I’m Having “Second Thoughts” Again.

Good morning and God bless you! With this post, I move my blog, “Second Thoughts,” to WordPress and incorporate it into a new website. The previous location for my blog was here: https://grace-on-first.blogspot.com/.

I begin with good morning because it is a state of mind more than a time of day. I am a United Methodist pastor currently serving Wayland United Methodist Church in Wayland, Michigan.

I have named my blog, Second Thoughts, intentionally. Such a title may refer to doubt, like, “I’m having second thoughts about some decision/matter/question, etc.” However, I use second thoughts in the more positive light of giving further consideration to matters of faith and life. Second thoughts suggest that first thoughts and impressions may not convey the deepest meaning. Further contemplation can bring out better understanding and allow for meaning to emerge over time. The late Howard Thurman, a theologian/pastor/author, referred to the need to allow our decisions and questions to “simmer.” While I can respond to the immediate and urgent needs of a situation, I am a contemplative person at heart who is nourished in solitude, reflection, silence and conversation.

I am challenged and excited at now working with a website and blog. I love to write but I am a slow composer, so I will see how my energy flows into the frequency with which I write.  Here we go…